We all have things we get insecure about when we are in bed. But apparently guys don’t notice what women think is their “problem area.” They are just happy that they are getting it on! Check out what experts say men have no worry about during sex.
1. Your Extra Lbs
According to sex expert Ian Kerner, PhD, author of ‘She Comes First’ most guys aren’t seeing or thinking straight during sex because they’re too busy being overtaken by a mix of the love hormone oxytocin, testosterone, and the pleasure neurotransmitter dopamine and of course your inherent sexiness. So, if you’re worried about your muffin top or the fact that your thighs touch…..don’t!
2.Your Breast Shape
Trust us: Only you notice that your left tata is slightly larger than your right. Most men are just excited to be in close proximity to your girls, Kerner says, “they could care less what size they are, or even if they are two different sizes.”
3. Your Acne
Sure, we all want perfect, smooth skin, but really…how often does that happen? A last-minute scramble to cover up imperfections is pretty much in vain, says sex expert Darren Michaels, author of ‘Flipside Erotica’. Don’t worry if you have a breakout on your back or a few zits on your butt. Your guy will be so busy grabbing it, he won’t notice.
4. Your Sweat
While sweat might seem gross to you, “your natural odor and sweat can be a huge turn-on to guys,” Kerner says. So, unless you haven’t showered in days, don’t worry if you’re getting a little overheated. That’s kinda the point, right?
5. Your Stubble
So, you didn’t have time to shave your legs or your bikini area pre-sex? Kerner says that if you have a little stubble down there, a guy is certainly not going to get bent out of shape over it… or even notice.
6. Your Hair And Makeup
Guys won’t know whether your hair is up or down, or whether you’re wearing makeup or not during sex, so don’t stress it. In fact, Kerner warns that, “worrying about how you look during sex will screw with your ability to get lost in the sensations.” And that’s definitely no good.
7. Your Tightness
“Most guys won’t be calculating how your vagina compares to previous partners,” Kerner says. While kegel exercises never hurt, there’s no need to stress about your tightness. You’re going to feel pretty damn good, no matter what.